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Team Loyaltyby Footy » Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:54 pm

Right so here’s my dilemma its kinda complicated:

I have played on a team for over 3 years and became really good friends with everyone on it. Now about 2 months ago there was a bit of an argument and I ended up leaving the team. I really regretted it but then I decided to start fresh and join a new team. The new team are great we get on really well but I’ve always felt it just wasn’t the same. So I looked into joining my old team again but they said a few people were not happy with me coming back. So I continued to play for the new team making a lot of good friends.

Now a few days ago I was talking with a few members of my old team and they tried to persuade me to come back. I now they say its fine for me to come back. Just really hard making a decision whether I should stick with this team or go back to them. Just wondered if anyone had any advice or what would they do in this situation?

Much appreciated.
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by Emzi » Mon Sep 03, 2007 8:25 am

Hmm, I've never been in that situation myself.

I guess you should think about what feels right for you. If you want to go back to your old team because of what it felt like then, it might not feel like that now because of what's happened.

You should really think about what feels right now, and where your loyalties lie.

If things go wrong if you go back to the old team, the team you're on now will probably not take you back either.

But if you're sure that you're welcome at your old team then go for it.

Just make sure you do what's best for you now.

Sorry I'm not much help :)
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by Footy » Mon Sep 03, 2007 5:16 pm

lol no thank you i think that helps alot! Thanks for the advice. I have decieded to join my old team too many good friends there to say no :)
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by Emzi » Tue Sep 04, 2007 3:02 pm

No problem :) I hope everything goes ok with it :) Keep us posted :)
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by rosie727 » Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:00 pm

am i still on your team footy?
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by Footy » Tue Sep 11, 2007 10:12 pm

rosie727 wrote:am i still on your team footy?


Lolza....hmmmm.. maybe :P
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by rosie727 » Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:20 pm

hmmmmmmm might have to tell a certain person your deepest darkest secrets
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by shelby - us » Fri Sep 14, 2007 1:09 pm

wait...arent i on your old team too? 8)
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by rosie727 » Fri Sep 14, 2007 5:29 pm

of course shelby-who else do i have to gang up on footy with
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by shelby - us » Fri Sep 14, 2007 7:09 pm

but footie never asked us :cry:
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by rosie727 » Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:40 pm

lol hes too scared
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by Footy » Tue Sep 18, 2007 8:50 pm

rosie727 wrote:hmmmmmmm might have to tell a certain person your deepest darkest secrets


:(

Don't think you can black mail me into saying yes! :P


errrr...erm.. but since i'm in a good mood today ... yes your both on my team :roll:


Happy now?! :P
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by shelby - us » Tue Sep 18, 2007 11:28 pm

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay *jumps up and down* should i bring my pom poms?
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by rosie727 » Wed Sep 19, 2007 4:10 pm

can i have pompoms too?
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by shelby - us » Thu Sep 20, 2007 1:49 pm

of course! what colors do you want
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by rosie727 » Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:00 pm

same colour as yours :D
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by shelby - us » Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:27 pm

i seem to have some lying around...lol
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by Footy » Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:56 pm

Great! :roll:


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by shelby - us » Tue Sep 25, 2007 3:40 pm

*cheers footies team on*
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by rosie727 » Wed Sep 26, 2007 4:33 pm

wave those pompoms girl
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