letting go

by **rosie727** » Thu Dec 13, 2007 2:56 pm

after a recent conversation with someone on another site, which was quite upsetting-i wondered how easy/hard it was for people to move on after a relationship ended???? its been a while since i was there myself and found it hard to give good advice sooooo anyone???

by **Emzi** » Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:03 pm

When my last relationship ended I found it strange. The relationship itself was doomed, we were together for 6 years but most of that time I spent being miserable because I wasn't happy with him (he was possesive, violent, alcoholic etc.).

When it ended I felt relief. I did miss being in a relationship with someone, but I didn't miss being with him. So for me, although it sounds cold-hearted, it was alot easier for me to move on. If I'd still felt strongly about him and was 100% happy with him then it probably would've taken forever to move on.

If my current boyfriend and I split up then I would be very heartbroken and wouldn't know where to start to begin putting my life back together - so I feel for whoever is going through this and can only offer this person some cyber hugs.

by **thephoenix** » Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:39 pm

like emzi i cant imagine how hard this must be, i couldnt even think how hard it would be for me in my b/f left and i wouldnt wanna

by **thephoenix** » Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:40 pm

soz but *hugs* to ur friend rosie

by **rosie727** » Thu Dec 13, 2007 5:33 pm

thanx girlies

by **suzieQ** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 5:22 pm

Best advice I can give is to maybe do things to take her mind off it. I know it's easier said than done, but maybe if she tries new hobbies to take her mind off things, it'll also lead to making new friends etc. and in time she'll get over it?

by **Emzi** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:10 pm

How is your friend Rosie?

by **rosie727** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 8:30 pm

still struggling to come to terms with stuff-but i am here for them as always hun

by **Emzi** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:41 am

rosie727 wrote:still struggling to come to terms with stuff-but i am here for them as always hun

it takes time, but they'll get there

they have a good friend to lean on

by **rosie727** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 7:40 pm

i would like to think so

by **suzieQ** » Wed Nov 12, 2008 12:01 pm

Hope your friend is ok now Rosie

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