Too shy

by **shyboy** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:44 pm

Can anyone help me? I'm a 21 year old man and I have trouble asking any girl to go out with me. In fact I have trouble just speaking to girls. I'm really shy. All my best buds manage to pull girls no problem and they find it easy talking to them, but when it comes down to me I just can't do it.

What can I do? I'm scared I'll end up on my own all my life

by **thephoenix** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:39 pm

hello shy boy- i know how you feel.i am a very quiet person by nature and thought i would never meet anyone. i have however been seeing my b/f for about 8 months now and i didnt put him off after i knocked our drinks into his lap on our second date :oops:

just give youself a chance it will happen

by **rosie727** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 7:27 pm

lol soz phoe that is so funny :lol:

by **shelby - us** » Thu Oct 04, 2007 5:36 pm

i guess all he wanted was advise

by **rosie727** » Fri Oct 05, 2007 1:18 pm

by **Emzi** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:07 pm

shyboy wrote:Can anyone help me? I'm a 21 year old man and I have trouble asking any girl to go out with me. In fact I have trouble just speaking to girls. I'm really shy. All my best buds manage to pull girls no problem and they find it easy talking to them, but when it comes down to me I just can't do it.

What can I do? I'm scared I'll end up on my own all my life

You won't end up on your own. I'm sure there are girls out there who are just as shy as you. You just got to be yourself and you'll be fine. Try not to think of girls as potential girlfriends, but as potential friends, that way you'll be able speak to them easier

by **suzieQ** » Tue Sep 30, 2008 9:07 am

Emzi wrote:
shyboy wrote:Can anyone help me? I'm a 21 year old man and I have trouble asking any girl to go out with me. In fact I have trouble just speaking to girls. I'm really shy. All my best buds manage to pull girls no problem and they find it easy talking to them, but when it comes down to me I just can't do it.

What can I do? I'm scared I'll end up on my own all my life

You won't end up on your own. I'm sure there are girls out there who are just as shy as you. You just got to be yourself and you'll be fine. Try not to think of girls as potential girlfriends, but as potential friends, that way you'll be able speak to them easier

That's good advice. How are you shyboy? xx

by **shyboy** » Thu Oct 09, 2008 3:41 pm

suzieQ wrote:That's good advice. How are you shyboy? xx

I am ok thank you Suzie. How are you?

by **johnpeter** » Wed Oct 22, 2008 8:33 am

Early morning take meditation.. and feel free to talking others.. Tell to your close friends about this problem.. they give you some better ideas...
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