Too shy to ask anyone out

by **shyboy** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:43 pm

Can anyone help me? I'm a 21 year old man and I have trouble asking any girl to go out with me. In fact I have trouble just speaking to girls. I'm really shy. All my best buds manage to pull girls no problem and they find it easy talking to them, but when it comes down to me I just can't do it.

What can I do? I'm scared I'll end up on my own all my life :oops:

by **princess_x** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:52 pm

You're only 21. Don't worry about being alone for the rest of your life! You have plenty of time to go out and meet "the one".

Just be yourself around girls, speak to them like you would any friend of yours, get to know them and then once you feel relaxed around them maybe ask them out? If they say no just use it as practise - the more you do it the more confident you'll feel x

by **shyboy** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 12:20 pm

Thanks for the help you guys but i feel like i'm never going to have a girlfriend. I get too nervous around girls to just be myself.

by **rosie727** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 1:54 pm

shyboy wrote:Thanks for the help you guys but i feel like i'm never going to have a girlfriend. I get too nervous around girls to just be myself.

i have a friend just like you my advice to him was just to imagine he was talking to me. he can talk to me about anything cos he doesnt see me as a girlie :oops:

give it time hun, you are only young.

by **shelby - us** » Fri Sep 07, 2007 12:47 pm

i think sometimes a DATE can feel kinda scary so maybe just ask someone to do something more casual like a lunch or go to the mall

by **mr incredible** » Fri Sep 07, 2007 3:36 pm

dont worry about the "D" word just be yourself. women tend to like that

by **shelby - us** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 12:57 pm

mr incredible wrote:dont worry about the "D" word just be yourself. women tend to like that

and we like guys with fat wallets...lol

by **SarahGirl** » Thu Sep 13, 2007 9:12 am

Seriously, if you have problems talking to girls in a dating context, go and do something whre you are in contact with a lot of girls and women in a social context, join some sort of group or study class, don't try to flirt or date - just talk to girls, until you feel more comfortable with us.

by **shelby - us** » Thu Sep 13, 2007 12:39 pm

SarahGirl wrote:Seriously, if you have problems talking to girls in a dating context, go and do something whre you are in contact with a lot of girls and women in a social context, join some sort of group or study class, don't try to flirt or date - just talk to girls, until you feel more comfortable with us.

yep!

by **willdchild** » Mon Oct 01, 2007 2:18 pm

shelby - us wrote:
mr incredible wrote:dont worry about the "D" word just be yourself. women tend to like that

and we like guys with fat wallets...lol

amen to that

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