Pleasing my girlfriend

by **Emzi** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:43 am

You're only young.

Speak to each other about it and take it slow. Let her show you what gets her going. And remember, practise makes perfect

by **shyboy** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 12:21 pm

wish i could help you mate but i can't even get girlfriend. i only wish i had your problem

by **rosie727** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 1:50 pm

hi foreplay is the word!!!! lots and lots of it. the boring science part says that only 20% of women orgasm during penetrative lovin', most orgasm during clittoral stimulation. does ur girl masterbate?? if she knows how to get herself off then she can tell u how. but talking to each other is a good thing and relax getting anxious about it wont help
good luck :wink:

by **Emzi** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:04 am

metalhead wrote:How do you suggest I bring this up? I don't want to just blurt it out in everyday conversation.

When you're both alone and feel comfortable with each other. She's your girlfriend so you should be able to speak to her about anything

by **mr incredible** » Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:06 pm

er life at that age is hard

talk to eachn other and relax

by **nikko** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:00 pm

You need to learn to read her reactions and communicate with her to find out what she likes or how. This is the most cases the problem when 1 of the partners does not get what he/she really wants, could be shyness to be open with this but communication is is a very important thing in a relation and also in the sexual part of that.

Foreplay is something very nice and it can arouse both to a level you cant imagine and its a very important part. This can be started way for you even touching each other, some romantic meal with candle lights and nice wine, some sweet words all this is already an part of the foreplay. Getting relaxed and in the mood ( exited ) for what is to come :wink:

by **shelby - us** » Tue Sep 11, 2007 12:12 pm

nikko wrote:You need to learn to read her reactions and communicate with her to find out what she likes or how. This is the most cases the problem when 1 of the partners does not get what he/she really wants, could be shyness to be open with this but communication is is a very important thing in a relation and also in the sexual part of that.

Foreplay is something very nice and it can arouse both to a level you cant imagine and its a very important part. This can be started way for you even touching each other, some romantic meal with candle lights and nice wine, some sweet words all this is already an part of the foreplay. Getting relaxed and in the mood ( exited ) for what is to come

i agree with nikko.

by **SarahGirl** » Thu Sep 20, 2007 8:40 am

As embarrassing as it is, saying 'I do like ..... like this, do you?' is not impossible - hoest,

for example, spend some quality time kissing her (most girls like to be really kissed, not just two minutes) then say something like, 'I do like kissing you like this, how about you', just soft.

Then (on another occassion), 'I love touching your breasts ...... (pause) does that do anything for you?'

and variations - at some point you will find things she doesn't particularly like, some she does, some she really likes!

Lots and lots and lots of kissing and touching and then talking

by **shelby - us** » Fri Sep 21, 2007 1:40 pm

that makes sense sarah

by **willdchild** » Mon Oct 01, 2007 2:51 pm

you are both so young dont put more pressure on by all this worrying

by **cleondann** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 8:18 am

that's not so difficult... But is u r there just for the sake of lovin' .. then it may be..
sarah girl has some good comments on that... that' real life quotes i think...
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